By
Bill Ramby
My friend Amish asked me to write an article about my late friend Don Berkey
for this issue of the magazine. I was enthusiastic about the idea. Don was, and still is, my friend and I figured I could
write a fair article about him.
So I started the project with great enthusiasm. I fired
up my computer and sat down to write.
I have so much swirling in my head to write about Don,
yet I couldn’t get it down into an article. And when I finally did get something written down, sadly it sounded like
an impersonal obituary.
Don deserves more than that. As a "larger than life" type person,
he should have a personal, thoughtful article written about him. I mean, this is the guy who convinced Richard Jordan to go
into business and almost single handedly got Hyosung to admit to a CDI issue with certain GV250’s.
But
for some reason I just couldn’t wrap my head around it.
So I decided to take a
different tack. I am going to write an article about a friend thats just away for a while. I’m going to tell you some
stories about my friendship with Don and how a fellow I met on the Internet made a difference in my life.
I first met Don through whats called a list group on the Internet. I had asked
about learner permit rights in Pennsylvania and he was one of those that responded. Not one of those long replies Don is known
for but a little short reply that managed to spark a dialog that lasted for years.
Don likes to talk
to people. I mean literally talk to people. Yes, he has one mighty fine pen, but when you get to know him, he likes to actually
hear your voice.
I rmember when he asked
me for my phone number. I personally thought it was a little strange. I mean, sure I liked this guy I passed emails with,
but did I really want to get personal and pass along my phone number? Well, I did and man am I glad.
My
wifes reaction the first time he called was kind of funny. It was the classic "You gave someone on the internet your
phone number and now he’s calling? What if he’s some kind of axe murderer? Is he going to start stalking you?"
type reaction.
That simple phone call lasted about 30 minutes. From that point on we were
friends in the literal sense, not just the internet sense.
It was through Don that
I met Mark at Andy’s Powersports who eventually sold me my Hyosung GV250. After I worked the deal over the phone for
the bike, I rushed to let Don know I was coming out his way. That was the first time we met in person. I got to meet Linda
as well. The friendship we started was cemented thereafter.
It was kind of a funny
thing too. Not funny ha-ha; funny that a person he’d never met in person was important enough that he would take time
out of their schedule to go and meet. This was when Linda had first started her cancer treatments. In fact she had just had
one earlier in the day and was tired. But they both made the effort to come and greet me. Talk about feeling humble!
I didn’t even get to load my bike in the van that day. Mark and Don took charge. They rolled
the bike into the van and tied her down for me. I expected that of Mark, he was the dealer after all. But for Don to pitch
in with a person he had only shaken hands with that very day, well that tells you about the kind of person Don is. He is infamous
in his giving attitude.
A good example of that was a story I remember him telling about finding a woman
and her children parked on the side of the road. He stopped his bike and asked them if they were ok. Apparently the father,
who was working, had just been transferred to the area. The mother and children were just finally moving to the are to join
up with the father and their map directions weren’t the best. Of course they ended up lost. Don took time out of his
day to help those total strangers find their way to their new home.
If you’ve
read anything about my friend Don, you know this attitude was typical of him. He would go out of his way to help anyone, anytime.
Even perfect strangers.
I finally got my chance to give Don some help when, in early 2007, Don was
looking for trike options for a GV250 for his son DJ. Bob Witte had just posted some of his video’s of the Trinity Trike
GV250 but for some reason, Don couldn’t view them. Since I was going to be passing his way to go to the Indy show, I
made a Video CD of the videos Bob made.
On my way back from Indy, I met Don and Linda at the
infamous Sheetz convenience store (it might have been the same one from "Da Punk"). I popped the CD into my laptop
and showed Don and Linda the videos. You should have seen their eyes light up! This was the first true trike option they had
found.
They did later purchase one of the Trinity Trike kits and won a show or two
with it. I’m not sure who was more proud of that trike, DJ or Don. I do know Don worked on the trike and polished it
over the winter to get it looking perfect for DJ. If there is one love in his life other than Linda, it is DJ.
A fathers love for his child is no small thing, and was exemplified by Dons relationship with his
son. Don did whatever he could to share his love of riding with DJ. When the trike took first place in a contest DJ told Don
that he felt he didn’t deserve the trophy. Don looked at him and told him "When a horse wins the Kentucky Derby
there are a few people in the winners circle. One is the owner and one is the jockey. Your the owner and yeah you deserve
the trophy. I’m just a wrench jockey." I know for a fact that Don was proud for DJ to hold that trophy. It’s
just the way Don was.
I could go on with these little stories about a guy in West Pennsylvania that
had such an impact on the whole alternative bike community, but I think you will get to know him better through his stories
and essays. After reading them, you will know him as well as you can today. You will see the humorous side and the soul searching
side of a man who loved riding, loved people, and loved to share.